No problem, hi jack whenever.
I have started to rethink what going dark means for me. I don't think it means ignoring my W when she calls or texts me. That is not going to get me anywhere. If I had made the decision to move on, then I think that would be appropriate. Bit I haven't, and it's not.

So, I will respond to her by being friendly when she calls or texts me. I will not contact her unless it is absolutely necessary.

I think this is the better approach

BITS

M:34 W:28
SD:9
D:6 (pr)
M:3 T:6
Separated 1/16/11
ILYBNILWY 10/25/10
PA discovered 11/12/10, began about 10/1/10

I am not who I was, I am being remade, I am new...