May the force be with you young Ericmsant2.....

[ericmsant2]

All

I have not posted an update on my sitch in what feels like an enternity. So here goes…

1) I feel good…real good actually.
2) I am still legally married; although moving forward with the divorce.
3) Moving out of the marital home; although putting me in a less advantageous position legally was the BEST thing I did…in a long time.
4) My children (at least two of them) have transitioned very well. My R with my D remains strong and she actually prefer to be with me at “Daddy’s house” (although I keep correcting her…”our house”). The R with my middle son is GREAT.
5) I do not really speak much with my oldest who remains angry. I have focused on detaching from HIM and giving him the space he needs. I am not giving up on him, rather, I will no longer allow his anger and issues to impact me or the other two children.
6) I can say with 100% certainty that the legal process in my state [censored]!
7) I was involved in a R that I recently ended. It was a good R; however, my life with my kids and finishing up the legaility of my divorce are my highest priority. To that end, any plans or person that gets in the way of that must be removed from my life.
8) Did I forget to say that moving has been a God sent gift to me.
9) I am feeling strong, feeling confident…feeling more comfortable in my skin.
10) I still have work to do…and probably always will. BUT man….I feel good!

Taking a break from the boards was a good thing for me and I am sorry that I did not reach out to more of you over the past few months. I needed to really focus on me and the kids for a while.

Okay…enough of an update…..Party at my house in June or July…for those of you who know me well….shoot me an email and let me know what dates work for you! 

Oh…and Grit…NO we are not sleeping in the same bed together if you come up!

It feels good to be back guys!

With love,
Eric