Denver, I give you a lot of credit for 'putting up' with SS. My S14 is quite difficult and seems to be getting worse, and it's it's hard enough for *me* to be around him. W doesn't know how to deal with my S14 and doesn't seem to want to. She had mentioned more than once that she'd come back except for my kids... So many times I've wanted to tell my W that I put up with SD, now it's her turn
I guess I'm trying to say that you should be proud of yourself for sticking around and dealing with his behaviour like an adult rather than running from it. I wish you luck and especially patience!
Me 43 W 38 M 5 T 7 SD20 S15, S13 with 1st W ILYBNILWY June 2010 Separation/Bomb July 2010 Divorce Feb 8, 2011