Well, they were on-again, off-again... unstable, possibly abusive relationship. Shortly before the divorce he met me for coffee with two black eyes (said he "fell on his face when he was drunk") to apologize for everything that he'd done over the previous year. She ended up cheating on him in a threesome. I don't think they've even spoken since that happened, but I don't really ask about her. After that he had a bit of a downward spiral, ended up in therapy for a while and has been more normal/apologetic since wintertime.
Me - 30, H - 32 T - 10, M - 6, D - 1 DD#1 - 4, DD#2 - 2 on/off OW 4/09 - sometime Summer 2010 (Told me about OW 4/10) Separated 6/11/09, divorced 8/4/10, trying again 9/2011
