I have not posted in some time. Things are moving along for the better. My H and I still live apart, my choice.
We spend 1 evening during the week together, usually dinner, and the weekends together. We DO NOT have any R talks, but I have caught him making statements about the future. We are talking/planning a trip to Panama in July. Not soooo sure I want to do that yet.
We did have our first arguement in 6 months on Friday (not counting the night I threw him out). The next day we met for lunch and he asked me to NOT to discuss "us" with my sister in the future. I, in turn asked him to only speak to me with respect, in the future. I dropped the rope that night, 6 weeks ago and now he persues me.
The lessons I have learned are priceless. I am thankful that I sat on the evidence of his affair for as long as I did. It gave me time to make and work a plan. It gave me time to get angry and NOT pathetic.
I am not sure what I want in the future. I now make the decisions for my life, not him
me:51 H: 48 No kids together M:14 years seperated:Ask him to GET OUT 3/21/11 Piecing 09/14
