I don't know why but I feel on the border of an anxiety attack. Get a grip on your emotions. [color:#CC0000]Where the head goes, the heart will (eventually) follow.Are You going to be subject to inexplicable whims and anxieties the rest of YOUR life?? NO. You will "get happy, if it means you fake it til you make it, or you do the cognitive work needed, or you picture a STOP SIGN to these emotions OR you listen to happy music and or you pray, but somehow you MUST BE IN CHARGE OF YOUR HAPPINESS, it won't "land" on you for no reason and then stay. It's up to YOU. Believe that. It's true. That's why Aristotle said "Happiness is a virtue" b/c he knew we had to create and sustain it in our lives. [/color]
I hate when this happens. I am just going to close my eyes and pray.
Prayer is a start. But notice the helpless tone you are using..."hate it when that happens..." as if a branch fell on your car b/c of the wind. Please, this is your life. It's the only life you get and it's a short one. So Let's stop that "happens" stuff, and let's see YOU take charge of your life.
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