Update: When we left the mediation discussion W said she needed time to think about things (the mediation). I responded that I thought we had agreed, that I thought that what the discussion was for. In any case, I agreed to her "thinking" about it. I said fine, if I don't hear from you by the end of the day on Monday I'll assume the answer is no to mediation. She INSISTED that she would call me either way. The "getting along" behavior. Well, needless to say, she didn't call. I wanted to DB and not call but I need to know whether I am going to need to hire a lawyer. When I spoke to her she said she was still thinking about two things. I asked what they were. She said she was cleaning the house and could not talk. I asked "what about the call either way?" She apologized and asked if we could talk tomorrow. I said no. There was nothing to talk about. That she had made her decision and that now I need to make mine. She kept insisting that she would call tomorrow. We hung up. I later sent and email: "no need to call. Its done."


Me: 53
W: 45
T: 26
M: 23
S: 15
D: 13
Papers filed 1/28/11
WAW moved out 3/29/11
Tentative D date 6/3/11