Wife of 6-years is Divorcing Me ...Need Counsel II

[LearningPatience]

I understand your conundrum, alamo. I'm feeling the same way. After I started DBing, whenever I'd backslide and hurt my W I'd write out an apology letter. I believe she appreciated this, I had seen that she'd saved some of them. I've also wanted to write a grand apology letter for all the things, small and large, that I know led up to the M crumbling. Still torn whether I should do that or not, and if so, when? Guess if someone answers you I can take that advice also.