Hey BA, You sound pretty great, too! Yes, many women (including my best friend) are hung up on height. Not me! I just need someone who shares my interest in being active. I guess we all have our hang ups.
I've heard several "theories" on when to just tell someone it isn't going to work. I believe in "soul tribes" and that there is definitely more than one soul mate out there. I know within a minute (seriously) if I think there's going to be a long term connection. Now, you can't really just get up from the table at that point, so you're kind of stuck for at least another hour. But at that point I think you say just what BA suggested. There's no point in wasting anyone's time.
Me 55 H 49 Married 21 years No kids bomb 5/09 filed 7/09 divorced and moving forward 5/10