Hey BA,
You sound pretty great, too! Yes, many women (including my best friend) are hung up on height. Not me! I just need someone who shares my interest in being active. I guess we all have our hang ups.

I've heard several "theories" on when to just tell someone it isn't going to work. I believe in "soul tribes" and that there is definitely more than one soul mate out there. I know within a minute (seriously) if I think there's going to be a long term connection. Now, you can't really just get up from the table at that point, so you're kind of stuck for at least another hour. But at that point I think you say just what BA suggested. There's no point in wasting anyone's time.


Me 55
H 49
Married 21 years
No kids
bomb 5/09
filed 7/09
divorced and moving forward 5/10

Life is all about Plan B