Originally Posted By: musclegal
So, next question. When you have met someone, but don't sense that its going to go anywhere, what do you say? I've got a 2nd date tomorrow with a nice guy but I don't think he's close enough to be a "soulmate" (that's what I'm looking for this time around...think there is more than one man who could fit the bill, but my X and I didn't share enough interests...or, rather, he didn't share enough of mine!). Am looking for the right way to say this doesn't feel like it will click for a long term relationship (maybe that's all I need to say...)


Just keep it simple and tell him: "I'm sorry I just don't feel a connection between us. It was nice meeting you and I wish you the best in your search for a partner."

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