VERY few men choose me. I'm 5'2, 115 pounds(CrossFit toned) blue eyes, financially secure, great job, fabulous friends and a happy, complete life.
Sounds to me like the men who are missing out by not choosing you are insecure and you wouldn't want them to choose you anyway. I mean what is not too like about the qualities you have listed - I'd choose you!
I've been on Match and OKCupid. While I am dating one specific woman right now, many of the women that I contacted in the past were for some reason hung up on height, even if they themselves were much shorter than I am. I am 5'8", 160 pounds, athletic, blue eyes, financially secure, etc. - but it seemed everyone wanted a 6 foot man. Nothing I can do about my height so I certainly didn't take it personally.
Just be patient and the right person will eventually come along either through the dating sight or in your everyday interactions with people.
