I am seeing W today. Well I am not going to say that with certainty there is always something that comes up so she can't do what she has comitted to doing.
I am meeting her to get some of my things.
This will be the first time we have seen each other since last July.
I am not kidding.
I don't have the frustration after posting ^^^^ that.
Way, way back in the beginning Lost for Words told me that most likely she will have to deal with the childhood abuse issue before our R can have a shot.
I am not a phsychologist but it seems to me the victim stance is entrenched in how she deals with life.
You either agree that she is the victim and help her defend against the dragons OR you are one of the dragons.
That is it really right now.
I let you know how it goes...if it goes.
My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am