That's funny. Same here, Golf girl, except I just turned 50 and I'm 5'1", 110. So, its good to know that I shouldn't expect this to go quickly. I started this with the mindset that I wanted to be open to the possibility of finding love again, but that it could take awhile.
So, next question. When you have met someone, but don't sense that its going to go anywhere, what do you say? I've got a 2nd date tomorrow with a nice guy but I don't think he's close enough to be a "soulmate" (that's what I'm looking for this time around...think there is more than one man who could fit the bill, but my X and I didn't share enough interests...or, rather, he didn't share enough of mine!). Am looking for the right way to say this doesn't feel like it will click for a long term relationship (maybe that's all I need to say...)
