Holy smoke, that hurt more than expected even though I expected it. I might even have been able to deal with an affair easier than this stampede to divorce two weeks after "we're friends again." Ugh. Didn't sleep a wink; about to go head for work to earn more money she can take. A small favor is that apparently there's some precedent for a supporting spouse to get partial reimbursement from a supported spouse when they pay for education and the supported spouse isn't working. Which has been BY FAR MOST OF THE TIME WE'VE BEEN MARRIED.