I remember posting stuff last year...I was very much into the DB mode of things. I was finally feeling that I was able to swtich things around in my sitch.
Nope. I re-read some of those old posts and understood better where you were coming from. Of all the times to re-examine, I read that you are getting ready for a bittersweet ending to the ordeal. May 31st.
While I filed in Oct/10, it was just to save money. She had already contacted a lawyer to do the filing (and I was lawyerless - much cheaper). I want to not want to see her. Instead, I'm trying something I read - that kids want to see both parents happy when they're together and divorced. Still, I'm doing it your way by trying to limit those occasions in the first place~