Ok, a quick update. Yesterday she briefly mentioned to me that we need to talk about our separation. I agreed with her and tried not to show her how devastated I was. Feels like all hope is evaporating.

I can't believe my eyes right now. She is acting as if she is perfectly happy with her life and she probably is. She tells me that she is not angry with me and then keeps babbling about her job, which she really likes. I have also suspected for a long time that she is having an EA with a guy at her job, but she denies it. Arguing about this person is something that has pushed her further away from me and I have stopped asking questions about him.

My W is really stubborn and rarely changes her mind about anything. I am not having much hope for the moment, but will try to hang in there a little more. I am actually thinking about pretending that I have met another woman and start spending nights away from our house. This might spark some jealousy within her. Is this a good or bad idea?


Me: 33
W: 31

D: 3

T: 10
M: 5

OM: Probably
Big bomb: Jan 16th 2011
Dbing since: May 4th 2011