Thanks Scy and 9. I know that my W does share some fault. There are times now when I'm reminded of some of that. I also know that I need to forgive myself for the errors that I made. Those are many though and it is going to take me more time. Thanks you guys.

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Denver

M 43
X 38
T 13
W moves out of home 11/2010
Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012
I request divorce 5/2012
W moves home 6/2012
Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015
I leave 3/2016
process of divorce