It's difficult for us today and that is why my h and I are looking to move out of the area and have a fresh start. New friends, new neighbors, and have that DO OVER without people even knowing who we are or what we went through, because all that matters is we are a family once again and our lives are being led by God.
You know, when H and I were strongest in our walk with God was when we lived in a community and were very involved with our church. We were surrounded by other Christians and it was awesome. I am lucky that I have two wonderful friends who support my prayer life and stand for my marriage. Whenever I speak to either of them they always ask me what is God leading me to do or am I taking it to God. They are wonderful. I too have other friends and family who don't understand the way I am handling this, but that is okay, we are all on a different place on our path to God. I KNOW without a doubt, when my marriage is restored many eyes will be open to what is possible with God. Many will praise and glorify God when our marriage is restored. God has told me this as well.
Blessings!
Lorie W47 H48 D16 M20 H gone 11/9/10 lives w/OW
When you forgive,you heal. When you let go,you grow. When you cry to God, you surrender. When you love unconditionally, you show others Christ's love.