Time, I hear you on the little things they say that you want to take as hopeful. It's almost like they drop these little subconscious things in there, and then they catch themselves and pull back.
My schedule at work is going to be changing in a few weeks, and in a text convo today I mentioned to wife that I'd finally have Saturdays and Sundays off for the first time in my entire working life (worked in bars, retail, and the fitness industry...no weekends for me till now!). After talking about when I'd be at work, I had to throw in "Be nice to have Sundays off together..." W answered "Yes it would be."
A huge amount of advice that I've received on here is not to try and read anything into what the WAS says...but c'mon! I wanted to do a damn back flip when I read that.
It really sounds like you two are moving in more of a positive direction. He seems to be making a lot of contact. I'd say keep doing what you're doing and stay strong!
BITS M: 35 W: 27 T 7.5 years M 5 years No kids My EA: 3/08 Her EA: 1/11, discovered 3/11 (ongoing?) ILYBINILY, D mentioned 3/8/11 W at parents house: 4/16/11
