Rysmom - please - lets keep each other encouraged and updated, etc.

GG - I have seen Fireproof. I have done a few of the things suggeste4d in the book for the 40 days. BUT only when led by God. If it didn't feel right I just didn't do it. It wasn't DBing as some here would do but I did what I felt led by God to do.

One of the difficult things for me through all of this has been walking my walk with God and having people telling me what to do. Even my brother who is a strong christian does not understand why I haven't been to see a lawyer. I finally had to tell him to shut up. Then I asked God why my brother wasn't supporting my decision to save my marriage. God told me that my brother needed a faith lesson too. We just don't know all the people who are affected by this.

GG - I am so glad that you started this thread.