Thanks again, CS.

I guess part of this is ultimately about "figuring it out." Certainly, I could just move forward, but then... what have I learned? And what would stop me from doing more of the same in a new R.

So fair enough. I will do some digging. I have already thought a bit about this and I guess a huge part of my anger stems around the kids and her initial refusal to give me fair access. It began with her initial threats of taking me to court if I wanted to have more access to them than what W alloted at any given time. That was HUGE pain for me...