Lorie & Bond, thanks for replying.

What do you think about this instead:

H,

I want us to be friends. Friends do not talk to each other in this way. If you want us to be more than friends I am open to discussing this with you.

Me


Lorie, I do not want to bring up the OW. I feel that bringing up OW would validate the R they have. I know she is only a bandaid. If H wasnt going through MLC he would not be with her. She is not his type physically or mentally.

W - 31
H - 33
Married - 7 years
Together - 10 yrs
Kids - S 3yrs old
Separated - 27/03/11
OW - 10/04/11