Tad go back and read how desperate I was, I thought I would not survive. I lost my h and my only son went with him....basically everybody left me. I use to drive by xh's house everyday and look at his myspace page. The deleted their page and that helped a great deal. Eventually I got busy and preoccupied myself and started detaching little by little. I can tell u when u sit and do nothing ur mind wonders and u become more depressed. U have to make itself get up and going, if not for u or ur boys.
Don't talk relationship right now, u would only get ur feelings hurt. Snodderly and jack, I think it was, told me to put a rubber band on my wrist and every time I wanted to call xh or talk to him....SNAP!
