Yes Denver, I agree with TG and Scyl. My C told me time and time again that the things I did in or didnt do in the marriage should have been minor annoyances that are common in a marriage.

No blame game, but mY w is responsible for her own crap and also for magnifying them to make herself feel better about her own unhappiness.

I did tell her many times that it is easy to be unhappy.

She hated that. I would say, count your blessings, tell me what you want to make you happy and she could not come up with answers but she was great at the blame game after.

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BITS
M-46
W-42
M-16y
T-19 y
s10 s15
BombDec.19/09
Sep-F16/10
Sep Papers signed by W- June 30/10
Recon July 5/10
PA foundOut- Oct 30/10
Mental HospNov/10
moved out Nov/10
Leg Sep Mar 15/11