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No, do not mention that to her now. No R talk at all, she will see that as pursuing and will pull back even more, and that is not what you want.

What I did when I was brand new here and I had to wait for my posts to show up I would read the "Advice from wise DB's" board and their advice helped a TON. I still go over there and read from time to time.