Rysmom my h did come home unexpectedly. He just showed up at our door at 2am on a Thur. Now he was over earlier that evening visiting with the kids. Now even though he showed up I didn't know if he was staying or what. I didn't ask my h what he was doing here. I just had been healed and was taking my direction from God, so h and I didn't have a discussion of what he was doing home and for how long. At this point I was having all my conversations with God.
For whatever reason my h couldn't break that contact with ow. I truly believe it was demonic forces that kept him going back. That is why after he came home this last time I just prayed and said God I can't do this with my h. I said God he is here today, but I felt he didn't have it in him to break all contact 100%. Well, God knew that too and the ending is ow is gone and is never coming back. I know this all sounds so weird, but I am just saying what happened to me.
This whole situation grew my faith 1000 fold. It has been nothing but peaceful now that ow has been removed from our lives for good. I think my h was a bit shocked too that she ended up dead. Also my sharing to h of praying with direction from God made him a believer. He already knew I was walking with the Lord when I married him, but this strengthed his faith as well.
Me 50 H 42 S 22 S 9 D 7 M 12 T 17 H moved out 8/2006 H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks H moved home 5/2011 for good
"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"