A 2x4 here (from one who gets them on many occasions)...
STOP CREEPING HER FB!
And as I've been told often as well, stop trying to "mind read" or guess what the post meant.
Either hide posts from her, block her, or get off FB and GAL. Might not be easy to do, but it must be done. If only for your own sanity (ie. not knowing makes us insane... reading that stuff makes us more insane...)
