You nailed another woman, and you are questioning where her anger is coming from?
Please go to counseling as soon as possible to be honest with yourself if you can't be it here.
You didn't have sex with someone else because she didn't touch you. If you wanted to make the relationship with your wife work, you would have said, let's discuss our problems.
You decided to solve +your+ problem.
Really, a good therapist can work wonders (and cut down on a lot of costs). But I have to hand it to my lawyer, even though he was a shark and monster and I would have no interaction with him in any other situation, but he was brilliant when he put all of the medical costs of my doctors and children on what my husband owed.
See, not only do you have to get tested for STDs once. You really need to do it for a year, and there's some great legal things in my state that if there's a specific type of deception that risks your health, the other party is responsible. So most of the counseling costs for me and the kids were on his balance. And from what I understand, I wasn't even close to being brutal with him.
My lawyer suggested that he could get an order that my ex would have to get at least two or three years of sexually transmitted diseases tests, but that the orders would go through their HR department along with the people he worked with. He said that there's a way to write something where you don't disclose any medical information, but it's worded so you know that person needs to be tested for hepatitis in a very embarrassing way, and more than one scorned wife was all too happy to pursue it.
