Thanks Renee and Laurie. I too believe that God will restore my M and I plan to stand. I'm just low on patience. (I know...I'm going to need a lot.)
I've been wanting to talk to W about our R. Is there ever a good time to do this? Should I never bring it up?
S18 said to me last night that if I talk to her about it, it'll probably just drive her further away. He's right isn't he?
I'm convinced that she is nuts. I'm just going to have to wait it out.
I read recently that MLC for a man can take 5 years. For a woman it can take 2. Any truth to this?
Sorry for the questions.
Heading out to apply for work!
Tad
Currently: M 56 XW 57 Sons 38,33,31,29
The Sitch: Married 26 years EA w/ OM 9/10 Bomb 10/10 (5 weeks after 25th anniversary) Sep 12/10 She wants D 1/11 W files 5/11 D final 10/11 XW marries OM 6/13