DG, sometimes, for myself at least, being able to say "I'm still here" is a victory. We are still here living and breathing and fighting the good fight. Where there is life there is hope. The only way we lose all hope is if we stop living.

I'm a person who wants guarantees too - hard facts and percentages of success rates. In matters of the heart, we don't get that. But who would want to be a statistic? That never has good connotations.

I miss him to DG, I miss him too. Hang in there; there may not be guarantees, but there is hope.

Me: 35
Him: 43
Together: 19 1/2 years
1st Bomb (IDLYAM): March 2011
2nd Bomb (OW): April 2011
He abandons home/bills/everything: May 2011
He's bought a new house for OW: September 2011