Though with this new insight of Denver's...might not be appropriate. ; )
It is a countdown... only to a goal for me to reach in which I have not spoken of R or OM, and have given my W the time and space that she feels that she needs. To a day when I need to reassess things from my own perspective ... to determine what I need to do at that time for my own happiness.
That may be to renew that 90 days... it may be to close the gates to my W ... or it may be to move on entirely. I do not know, and I do not plan on dwelling on this question until this time expires. That is the goal. A baby step.
BITS DEnver
M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce
