9, make sure to read sandi's post carefully.

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What I was NOT saying is to pursue her.


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When she contacts you, then you can slowly start to(slowly for now) turn on the charm.


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You are charming, upbeat, teasing, flirting......and unavailable to her.


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when you are being flirty, etc., you do not make any of your discussions about the two of you.

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Happiness is not something ready made. It comes from your own actions.