Thanks 2step, karma, Isalnder and Sandi. Always feel better with a response.

Sandi:

That sounds like a test to me but IF i am determined to get her back and I have decided today that I really am, then I guess its the road I MUST take until things change. EVERYBODY other than this board and one friend are telling me to "CUT HER LOOSE"

People are saying, " You cant possibly even consider taking her back considering the scumbag has had sex with her countless times"

But i guess I can IF she'll have me down the road and is willing to commit to the marriage.

I was a great flirt over the years when I was single and even when I was married a little. I used to love it , just think it might be tough to stay in the flirty zone while she is with OM but I guess I have no choice if I want her back.

Let the test begin.

But I still stay a little dim right. I only respond and dont initiate contact correct?

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BITS
M-46
W-42
M-16y
T-19 y
s10 s15
BombDec.19/09
Sep-F16/10
Sep Papers signed by W- June 30/10
Recon July 5/10
PA foundOut- Oct 30/10
Mental HospNov/10
moved out Nov/10
Leg Sep Mar 15/11