Sorry Nine, didn't mean to rattle your brain with what I said.
What I was NOT saying is to pursue her. Don't talk or act like her husband. Have the attitude of a single man. When she contacts you, then you can slowly start to(slowly for now) turn on the charm. Be the other man she cannot have. You feed her emotional needs (if possible) but at the same time, you know perfectly well that nothing will come of it. No expectations! You are charming, upbeat, teasing, flirting......and unavailable to her. There is one important part to remember....when you are being flirty, etc., you do not make any of your discussions about the two of you. Make it all about her. Much later down the road, you can start to slightly add yourself into the talks. You are not serious when talking to her. Stay away from that. You are single, unattached, a man any woman would love to be with.....but she gave you up and now you are free to be with anyone. This is what she'll start to see once you start thinking with the attitude of a single, attractive, confident man.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
