Alright...I talked to her best friend on Sunday...She told me that my W told her about it and said she knew she couldn't trust me to do something I said I would do. It does bother me that is what she got out of that conversation. So I thought and prayed about it. I decided to give her the money. I put it in her account this morning. She emailed me at noon asking what that money was for. I told her that it was for the insurance and that I had thought about it and since I said I would do it, I did. She said she appreciated it (that's not a thank you is it?) and then was nice about what I wrote to her mother in the card I got her. She also said she realizes that I paid for her gift card her daughter gave her (still no thank you though). I feel better because I kept a promise I made...But that is it...I have mode no other promises and so the money spout is now off.