I know 9. There are times over the least 1 1/2 years and 6 years overall that I thought I was going nuts. I have been faking it for the last 11 days - forcing myself to go dark. I will admit that my mood fluctuates a lot less when there is no contact.
Still....I poseted the list of events to see what others think, because I hate to see STBX as someone so evil she was just playing with my mind for fun.