I have got to stop arguing with him about his feelings!

H: "I feel so at peace when I'm with her."

Me: "Yes, but you've been saying the same about me for 13 years."

He was with OW for 4 hours today. He didn't tell her about the sex between us yesterday. I told him it was bad enough he lied to me, that he shouldn't be lying to her, too.

Must start thinking before saying anything.

He is at the doctor now. This appointment was originally related to us starting to try to have kids again. frown He says it's just a physical, but I suspect he is also addressing his sexual issues for their relationship.


M: 32
H: 29
ILYBINILWY: 4/15/11
PA/EA discovered 5/6/11, began around 4/1/11
OW: 22 (21 when A began)