empowerment over, just had H pack his bags

[canadianMrs.]

MLC mind games at their best. Yesterday H brought over a Mother's Day card, signed "Love H". Strange. Then I find out later in the night he has blocked me from our savings and line of credit. (We were still in talks to work all that out). Then, just an hour ago he shows up to "borrow" a tool. He lives 30 minutes away. I'm sure he could have found a wrench closer? Anyway he stays for 30 minutes longer. I was editing pictures on the computer, and he basically just leaned against the wall watching me and trying to make small talk. I just kept doing my own thing. The other day I said (on here) that I was 95% sure I wan't to divorce. That money thing put it up to 100% today. It not even about the money. Its about worrying more about himself then the kids and I. Plus it was sneaky. I had to find out for myself (the story of the last 9 months with him). On Friday we had just talked about how he feels out of the loop with our kids because he only gets info about them from them, not me. I told him if he starts being straight with me, then we can work on talking more. On a good note, I have bought a new house and I now have a count down until I move back to my home town.