I know you dont know me... My name is Cindy, I've been married for 28 years, together for 40 became a WAW in 2007, My husband and I got back together 3 months later, we have no kids ( unfortunately ) In my former occupation as a Pediatric nurse ( 18 years ) I have seen so much abuse and parents that did not give a hoot I just wanted to stop by and tell U how proud I am of you, protecting your daughter from what sounds like a very bad situation. Your daughters comment about starting over " Just you and I" brought tears to my eyes. I'm so sorry this is SO hard for you and your girls.