My Wife Wants to Separate

[DeterminedFather]

JBNATI,
Her proposed terms when she was moving out would have been good for me but now that I'm moving out they don't look so good.

All of the advice I get outside of DB is to take a hardline position to get a lawyer and proceed to a legal separation or divorce. What I understand of the DB approach is to not proceed with lawyers because they are meant for getting a divorce.

Now that I've agreed to move out I feel even more conflicted because I don't want to move this along to divorce but I fear the bad position I'm putting myself in.