Like you this is the only time that I spend time with H. I do not contact him in any way nor does he contact me. I find that we have a good time doing these activities and it has been a positive experience. I am reluctant to stop them because I want H to remember what our family is about and what he is missing. H has told me before that when he spends time with me and S he feels happy and that we are meant to be a family. Then he has also told me that when he's not with us he likes the fact that he has no responsibility, that he can come and go as he pleases. Do what ever he feels like doing.
I feel so confused by this. I have seen him smiling more. But at the same time when he does smile and laugh he goes for days without contacting us - only sms to confirm when he will see S next. My question is this - because of the fact that Im getting good results, ie eye contact, smiling, laughing - should I continue these outings as a family?
W - 31 H - 33 Married - 7 years Together - 10 yrs Kids - S 3yrs old Separated - 27/03/11 OW - 10/04/11
