Day 1 after W moving out just happens to Mother's Day. Very tacky, W. It's also the 3 year anniversary of Bomb#1.
I went up and had lunch with my Mom today. She made some comments around not wanting me to in pain anymore and half of her wants me to just give up on my M. I am not ready to give up right now, and defended my position. She also made a comment that he was behind me in taking the high road.
My W had my S today and went to her parents' house. Her sibling were there sans any spouses. Her sister is twice-divorced and her brother was just in town to help her move.
When I get home my W is at the house, folding laundry. We had a decent conversation. Just talked about our days. She was doing pretty well today. She was not the emotional wreck she was yesterday. Just small talk between the two of us. She kind of hinted around and we ended up going out to eat at a sub place. She actually ended up sitting on the same side of the table because she wasn't sure my S was going to make room for her. We drove seperately because I needed to go grocery shopping for the week and she was going back to her apartment afterward.
So I will have my S through Wednesday. I am already starting to tweak the rules a bit. He packed his own lunch for school - I was proud of him for that. Unfortunately, we are not going to have as much one on one time as I would like, but I will have him this coming weekend, too. We should be able to spend some time together then.
