Veltis, so sorry to hear about your situation, but know that you are not alone. Keep reading and posting here and you'll get tons of great advice from the rest of us.
It really helps to look at other's posts to see what NOT to do. A lot of us have heard the exact same things from our wives that you have, me included. Don't make the same mistakes so many of us have.
If I can offer any advice at all at this point, it's to BE PATIENT. I didn't follow that advice myself when so many people here gave it to me, and I'm paying the price now. If she want space and time to figure things out, listen to her man.
Stay positive Veltis, you're not alone.
BITS M: 35 W: 27 T 7.5 years M 5 years No kids My EA: 3/08 Her EA: 1/11, discovered 3/11 (ongoing?) ILYBINILY, D mentioned 3/8/11 W at parents house: 4/16/11
