Seeking, thank you for your response. I havent discussed OW with H. I dont even acknowledge her. So to bring her up again would be going against everything that I have been doing. Afterall I do not want to give her power. At the moment I am not as strong as Id like to be. But in time I know that I can be.
Also, I know that she is a weak person. She is not very good at her job and was meant to be fired if not for H coming to her rescue. She has already threatened to jump out of his car whilst he was driving. Unstable or what? She threatened to do this after she found out that he still kissed me on the cheek when he saw me. Seriously I cant believe what kind of person H is with. H was such a decent person and to think that this is who he is associated with. Eeeewwww
Boundaries I get but I dont think I should acknowledge that I wont sleep with him because of OW. What do you think?
But then again there is always that thought in the back of my head that ML to H will be a good way for us to keep connected. OK i can see that I am still confused on this matter.
Definitely need advice from all of you who have been through this dillema.
W - 31 H - 33 Married - 7 years Together - 10 yrs Kids - S 3yrs old Separated - 27/03/11 OW - 10/04/11
