Thank you, DelinquentGurl. It helps (sooo much!) just to know someone is listening and empathizing.
I am struggling with boundaries right now. That is definitely something to work on. I did read Divorce Busting but that was before I found out about affair. H was actually out with OW while I sat in the library reading it, unbeknownst to me I'm afraid to bring any of the books home because if I even remotely mention working on the M, he gets upset. I have DR coming that I will read somewhere else once it arrives.
GAL - definitely a challenge. H has been my life for 13 years.
M: 32 H: 29 ILYBINILWY: 4/15/11 PA/EA discovered 5/6/11, began around 4/1/11 OW: 22 (21 when A began)
I'm afraid to bring any of the books home because if I even remotely mention working on the M, he gets upset. I have DR coming that I will read somewhere else once it arrives.