You are right that your husband is moving forward and you are standing still.....
The standing still is healing and strength gathering for positive forward movement.
X movement is moving forward on the hampster treadmill.
You will be better before he will. Peace.
Bomb 1/06 D dismissed 11/07, attempt reconciliation. Premature. Divorce final October 31, 2008. OW looks like bad history. Over. Still hopeful. Baby steps. In R with my X.