Tad she is hurting, but she has stuff to keep her busy. School and om occupy her time. (just a guess about om). You on the other hand probably think about this stuff ALL the time. It consumes you. It's hard not to think about it. The times she is hateful with you is some of the times she is hurting in my opinion.
My xh stood in the doorway and cried the day he moved me out. I said why are you crying? You are the one doing this. The very next morn icaught him with ow. They flip back and forth. It's an inner battle. The quilt is enough to drive them crazy. Then on top of that the personality battles going on inside them. It's male menopause only worse!
