You have been hurt Tad. Your emotions are crazy and nutty. But believe me, they are nothing like what she has - she has the added burden of the guilt.
I'm not so sure.
She doesn't seem confused or hurting at all.
Currently: M 56 XW 57 Sons 38,33,31,29
The Sitch: Married 26 years EA w/ OM 9/10 Bomb 10/10 (5 weeks after 25th anniversary) Sep 12/10 She wants D 1/11 W files 5/11 D final 10/11 XW marries OM 6/13