The other strange comment she made was that "I am in a very controlling relationship". Her friend then told her that I was mind controlling and overbearing and that my wife needed to get out of the relationship fpr the sake of the kids! Unbelievable stuff. The lengths that they go to re justifying their position is unreal.
I have not told my wife to do anything in the last 18 months other than to make a decision regarding the OM. I actually told her to go be with him. How this makes me controlling is beyond me except for the fact that I broke up her fantasy world.
My wife then told her "that would be easier if I didn't deserve this."
Friend then want onto say that my wife made a mistake but needs to forgive herself so that she can move on. Great advice from her friend!
Wife is continuing to play the victim even when she is the one who went outside of the marriage. This has been a painful couple of days.
