Thanks, I have already made a MC appt. with a someone we are both very comfortable with. I am not sure if she believes in saving the M or not, I guess I will know that at the 1 st. appt. Which isnt until next saturday. Going to be a long week. She hasnt asked a lot of questions. She has told me that she just doesnt have a lot to say right now. I have just been trying to give her space, because she told me that if I pushed her to make a choice right now it would be for D. So I told her I wouldnt ask her anything else. I dont plan on bringing up anything else until we see the MC. Unless someone has a better suggestion?